I got back from Sedona yesterday, and my husband commented on the picture of me on Devil’s Bridge that my sister had sent him. “How in the hell did she get you to go out there?” he asked. He is used to me refusing to even ride a Ferris Wheel because it will, at some point, stop at the top and sway which strikes sheer terror into my heart. I can ride roller coasters because even though they go up high, I’m not up there long enough to think about it.
Generally, I avoid any rides or situations that put me up high where I can see down below me and think about awful “what ifs,” but in Sedona I forgot to be afraid! It didn’t even occur to me not to go out onto the bridge.
When we began to climb back down from the bridge, a family arrived. The mother was terrified. My sister and I listened to her continually yell “stop” to her husband and son as they ventured across the rocks. You could hear the fear in her voice. It was then that I realized I hadn’t felt even a little afraid.
They say that the opposite of love is fear, and I’m beginning to think that I agree. Fear stops us in our tracks. If I think of all the things I am afraid of like heights, something happening to my children, not finishing my novel(s), not ever getting published, teaching high school for an indefinite number of years my heart starts to race.
In fact, just writing that list made it speed up a little bit, but if I approach all of those endeavors with love and a positive attitude or if I just forget to be fearful, life instantly becomes much easier. It is no longer a struggle. I can do things like walk out onto a rock bridge and enjoy the view. I can finish and submit my novel without worrying “what if.” I can love and enjoy my life.
If that is the only “souvenir” I take away from this Spring Break, it is a great souvenir. Now I just have to remember to forget.